"To love someone whom you like is insignificant. To love someone because they love you is of no consequence To love someone whom you do not like means you have learned a lesson in life. To love someone who blames you for no reason shows that you have learned the art of living..." ----- His Holiness Sri Sri Ravishankarji
Wednesday, 8 September 2010
Interdependence
The body is dependent on the whole creation. In society,
somebody has to make clothes, produce electricity, drill for oil. The body
cannot be independent of the world. For the body, dependency is absolute.
When the Spirit identifies with the body, then it gets pinched and looks
for independence. Mind, intellect, ego - they all look for
independence.
In looking for independence often you get stuck in the
ego and become more miserable. Most people are not aware of their
dependency. When they become aware of their limitations and dependency,
the desire for independence arises. Independence cannot be achieved unless
you start moving from within. When you move within, you discover that you
are interdependent. Individual Self/Soul/Jeeva is interdependence and in
fact every wise person knows that everything is interdependent and that
there is nothing like independence.
On one level dependency is a harsh reality. On another
level, it is an illusion because there is nothing else but the Self. It's
only when you don't feel oneness, belongingness that you want
independence. The Self being non-dual, there is no question of dependence
or independence. One who asks for independence is a beggar. One who knows
that it is an illusion is a King. When the sense of belongingness is not
well founded, then there is a volatile state in the life of a seeker. Then
the ego finds some excuse to revert to smallness. It is not yet totally
soaked in the totality of knowledge. As it is not used to it, the mind
finds every little excuse to revert back to the ego and to be aloof and
independent and separate and it would find any small fault and blow it out
of proportion. Be aware of these tendencies and come what may, be strong
in the commitment to the Satsang, the Path.
Question
:
How about
self-sufficiency?
Answer
:
Self is sufficient and
efficient. . . . [laughter]
- Sri Sri
|| Jai Guru Dev ||
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