How to forgive (a story) ‐ Sri Sri
A story from Buddha’s life ‐ Sri Sri :
Once Buddha was in an assembly when a man walked in looking furious. He thought
Buddha was doing something wrong. He was a restless businessman and he had
found that his children were spending hours with Buddha when they could have
engaged themselves in business at that time, making more and more money. He felt
that spending four hours of their day seated next to someone whose eyes were
always closed was incredulous. This was what had upset the businessman.
So, with furiousness walked straight up to Buddha looked him the eye and spat. He
was so angry, he could not find the words to exprss them that he merely spat at
Budha. Buddha simply smiled. He showed no anger, though the disciples around him
were angry. They would have liked to react but could not because Buddha was there.
So, everybody was holding their lips and fists tight. After the businessman spat at
Buddha and realised his action was not drawing a reaction, simply walked away in a
huff.
Buddha did not react or say anything. He just smiled. And that was enough to shock
the angry man. For the first time in his life, the man had met someone who would
just smile when he spat on his face. That man could not sleep all night and his whole
body underwent such a transformation. He was shivering, shaking. He felt as if the
whole world had turned upside down. The next day he went and fell at Buddha’s
feet and said, “Please forgive me. I did not know what I did.” To which Buddha
replied, “I cannot excuse you!”
Everyone including the man and Buddha’s disciples were flabbergasted. Buddha then
explained the reason for his statement. He said, “Why should I forgive you when you
have done nothing wrong”.
The businessman looked a little more surprised and told Buddha that it was he who
had wronged him by spitting on him. Buddha simply said, “Oh! That person is not
there now. If I ever meet that person whom you spat on, I will tell him to excuse you.
To this person who is here, you have done no wrong.” That is real compassion.
MORAL :
Compassion is not saying, “I forgive you.” Your forgiveness should be such that the
person who is forgiven, does not even know that you are forgiving them. They
should not even feel guilty about their mistake.
YOU HAVE TO DO IS...
If someone holds on to you for something you did in the past, just laugh at them.
This is because you are not the same person now. You see it as though somebody
else did it.
This is because the samskara of your consciousness has been erased, those things of the past have been erased.This makes you a new persson every time, everyday.
This is pure knowledge.
Jai Guru Dev!!!!
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